Memorial Day Weekend

As I sit here and type, I am guilty of being grateful for the long weekend and not grateful enough for those who have given all for their country so we can appreciate the freedoms we are privileged to have. Please say a prayer to remember those who have made the ultimate sacrifice to ensure our freedom. Just this week, Connecticut lost another soldier in this endless war on terrorism. This Memorial Day will be a poignant one for the family of Staff Sgt. Edwin Rivera as they grieve his loss. We all grew up watching movies that showed the eagerness with which soldiers and civilians alike defended their country with little to no regard for themselves or their own lives. I could not understand how or even why they could just go off and fight a war they were not even assured of winning...that is until 9/11/01. I am sure I am not alone in having come to the realization that self-preservation is a strong motivator. The need to defend home and family, friends, and neighbors is a compelling one and despite being sucker-punched, the United States has stood strong and united. As a country we have become more aware of the atrocities of war and the long-term effects it has on our returning veterans. Vietnam veterans returned to a country in turmoil and protesters who threw hate at them for having been drafted into service and for doing their jobs. Yes, there were some who stepped over the line, but the majority were young men away from home for the first time who were fulfilling their tour of duty. Today's soldiers return home to a hero's welcome and the respect that their forefathers fought so hard to command. It's okay to be grateful for the long weekend, but while you're enjoying the family barbecue, remember those who won't be having a burger and a beer with their family. Remember that our soldiers will be working around the clock without overtime or a thank you...unless we say it to them. Thank you to all the veterans for your service. Thank you to all the servicemen and women who are currently deployed or recently returned, our appreciation is genuine and sincere. Remember that freedom isn't free and it is our soldiers who pay the price.